Are you alone?
Path to loving yourself.
Life sometimes feels so dark and dull. We feel so alone and hollow. All one wants at that moment is someone by our side. Someone who can understand us and love us. Someone who shares our pain and listens to our stories. We try everything we could to overcome the situation. We even shower unconditional love in the wrong places and to the wrong people. Days will feel so dark, slow and lonely. Ultimately, we get our hearts broken and spiral out. Well, nobody is alone in this world.
Loneliness is always disappreciated in this world. We seek others love first than ours. We need to embrace our loneliness. If we can’t spend time with ourselves first, then how can we spend it with someone else. If you can’t love yourself first, than how do you expect someone else to love you.
No matter how alone you are, believe that you have yourself. Spend time with yourself. You are already missing the greatest person in your life, if you don’t talk to yourself. Your mirror shows your best companion.
I am not saying we don’t need others. We need people in our life. We need others love, their comfort and company. All I am saying is learn to love yourself and have a thought that you are Enough. Don’t search for the missing piece when you are already a whole package.
Loneliness is a blessing in disguise. It brings out the never-before-seen colors in ourselves. It is one of the few things in life that helps reinvent ourselves. It makes us stronger. It is also one of the few things that drowns many people as well. The only way you overcome it, is by adoring it. Knife is dangerous but we still use it anyway. It has become one of the most important tools in our lives. Fire is dangerous too, look how much we built using it. The most dangerous things have the most insane capabilities. It is bad if you think it is bad. It is amazing if you think it is amazing. Learn to control and discover your loneliness.
The only way you overcome your loneliness is by adoring it and that begins with you adoring yourself.
To all those who are suffering, Stay strong and search for your inner light. It is the brightest of all. Loving others is important and so is loving yourself. Being alone is never a curse. Respect yourself and believe that YOU ARE ENOUGH for you.
